Comments on: You two kids just can’t get along can you? http://sexualdeviants20.com/2008/03/17/you-two-kids-cant-get-along-can-you/ We are sexual deviants living in a web 2.0 world. When we are not hard at work building a fetish community at <a href="http://friendswithfetishes.com">FriendsWithFetishes.com</a> we are spending our time discussing, thinking and dreaming about fetishes, bondage, bdsm and whatever else comes to mind. Mon, 06 Feb 2012 07:26:28 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.3 By: Anonymous http://sexualdeviants20.com/2008/03/17/you-two-kids-cant-get-along-can-you/#comment-141 Anonymous Mon, 21 Mar 2011 08:22:54 +0000 http://sexualdeviants20.com/2008/03/17/you-two-kids-cant-get-along-can-you/#comment-141 <p>I'm glad you've implemented this feature. It's unfortunate that people can't get along, but blocking is needed, and not just to deescalate fights; sometimes it's needed for legitimate privacy reasons.</p> <p>Regarding privacy, I would prefer a system that made my profile completely invisible to the blocked user, without informing the user that I've blocked them. This is how blocking works on Facebook. I've run across profiles of people whom I know from other contexts, and I'd really like to keep those parts of my life separate from Fetlife. Within the current system, I can't do that; they can still see that I'm on Fetlife, which is more than I want to divulge. Moreover, they can tell by my minimal profile that they've been blocked, which may cause needless offense. </p> <p>Therefore, I'd like a block option that lets me hide my profile entirely. I don't mind if the invisibility is reciprocal. I just want it to look to blocked users as if my profile didn't exist at all.</p> <p>I hope you'll take this into consideration. Thank you for all your excellent work on the site and the community so far. It's a pleasure to be part of it.</p> I’m glad you’ve implemented this feature. It’s unfortunate that people can’t get along, but blocking is needed, and not just to deescalate fights; sometimes it’s needed for legitimate privacy reasons.

Regarding privacy, I would prefer a system that made my profile completely invisible to the blocked user, without informing the user that I’ve blocked them. This is how blocking works on Facebook. I’ve run across profiles of people whom I know from other contexts, and I’d really like to keep those parts of my life separate from Fetlife. Within the current system, I can’t do that; they can still see that I’m on Fetlife, which is more than I want to divulge. Moreover, they can tell by my minimal profile that they’ve been blocked, which may cause needless offense.

Therefore, I’d like a block option that lets me hide my profile entirely. I don’t mind if the invisibility is reciprocal. I just want it to look to blocked users as if my profile didn’t exist at all.

I hope you’ll take this into consideration. Thank you for all your excellent work on the site and the community so far. It’s a pleasure to be part of it.

]]> By: MasterABD http://sexualdeviants20.com/2008/03/17/you-two-kids-cant-get-along-can-you/#comment-54 MasterABD Tue, 18 Mar 2008 01:36:11 +0000 http://sexualdeviants20.com/2008/03/17/you-two-kids-cant-get-along-can-you/#comment-54 <p>Oh by the way, I have kids and I usually just ref them (unless one is really hurting the other), but thats not practical in this type of atmosphere.</p> Oh by the way, I have kids and I usually just ref them (unless one is really hurting the other), but thats not practical in this type of atmosphere.

]]> By: MasterABD http://sexualdeviants20.com/2008/03/17/you-two-kids-cant-get-along-can-you/#comment-53 MasterABD Tue, 18 Mar 2008 01:34:19 +0000 http://sexualdeviants20.com/2008/03/17/you-two-kids-cant-get-along-can-you/#comment-53 <p>I think this is great. Any more updates planned for this week.</p> I think this is great. Any more updates planned for this week.

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